Update on Lila


Posted by Philip R. McDavid | Posted on 11:46 AM | Posted in

So it's been a while since I've talked about my drag career. It's going. Can't say I'm a top notch performer yet, but it will take some time. I'm doing alright for myself. I have two drag Daughters Lola Martinez and Tiffany Martinez. They're beautiful, both are wonderful entertainers. Here's some pics of me. I'm going to get going....Stay cute everyone!

What is Love?


Posted by Philip R. McDavid | Posted on 1:18 PM | Posted in

It has been a while since I've posted a blog of any sort. And lately, something has been pressing me due to a conversation between a friend and I. We were discussing my current boyfriend and he was pressing me to say I love him. Being that we were together for a month, I do not feel this is appropriate yet for a lot of reasons. This pressed me to do a blog on the topic of love and relationships.

First off I want to say that there is a major difference in love and in love. And I think too many times, people rushing things overlook those differences. They only loving the person, think they are in love, when in fact, they aren't. There.is a lot to put into play when deciding on love for a person.

Do I love my boyfriend? of course! I love everyone til they give me a reason not to. That's just who I am. However, I do not feel that I am in love with him. And rightfully so....seeing as we are a fresh relationship, we can't possibly be in love. But why do people feel the need to rush these things? I sure don't hate him. But I am not in love with him.

I think that people need to be more careful in the speed of the movement of the relationship? It really explains divorce rate and heart break rate. So people, lets start thinking a little more before we rush things with people. Even when you've been together a long time, you still NEVER fully know a person.

It's Been A While


Posted by Philip R. McDavid | Posted on 10:24 PM | Posted in

I haven't blogged in forever, let's see what's new....hmmmmm......

So, Lila Signs is officially alive. I'll post pics. I think she's doing amazing for the short 2 weeks she's been doing it, and can't wait to see what she'll become in the future.

I am doing shows at Bottoms Up in Lakewood, Ohio, under the direction of the mot fabulous queen I know, Erica Martinez. We are even talking of me becoming her daughter! I am totally excited about that! I knew the minute I decided to become a Drag Queen, that I wanted to be apart of her family, and I knew the answer before she even asked. The complication comes in in the area of dancing. I don't. My friend, Christopher, is going to help me in that area. I also have my friend Ryan, who will be helping me by mixing tracks for me to perform. My friends have REALLY pulled together to help me in this. I have a few coworkers and regular guests that have been totally supportive, and yes, even some who are complete two faced bitches and can't say to my face what they do to everyone else behind my back. But I'll find that anywhere.

I am looking for a new job, since Target doesn't want to accommodate my needs. I really love my job at Starbucks. But when something doesn't pay the bills, it's time for a change. And Lila is expensive!

I think I'm just going to end this blog. Later